There was a great comment left on the blog yesterday by Catlin B. a Converge student and blog reader. She responded to a post about the Bristol Pailin interview that I placed on the blog last week (you can see the post HERE). During the interview Pailin made the comment that abstinence is a good thing, "just not always realistic." I found this intriguing because I believe that abstinence is hard but always realistic. Nevertheless, I wanted to discuss it among my 10 blog readers so I shot it out into cyber space. Catlin, a 16 year old student, gave this great response:
"f course abstinence is possible - it's just hard! As a 16-year-old living in the mixed-up world of raging hormones, acceptance, and boyfriends, I know that better than anyone, but my commitment to God is way stronger than my commitment to any boyfriend I could have right now. If a guy wants sex, and they aren't willing to wait until you're ready (which should be marriage), then they don't love you and aren't worth your time.
With all the pressures from media & peers, abstinence is harder than ever. I had a guy tell me the other day, "If you aren't having sex, what are you doing?" And people wonder why teen pregnancy is on the rise...right.
I choose to disassociate myself from all things like that, and I make it EXTREMELY clear with any guy I date that I am not having sex. Anytime you see me I have a purity ring on my left ring finger, and it'll stay there until it's replaced with my wedding right - that's just how it is."
Thanks Catlin for sharing your mind, heart, and above all your faith with us on the blog. You have reminded us that students can enjoy dating but in a way that is responsible and God honoring. Above all you have showed us another reason why teenagers are awesome! Continue to run the race!
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